Life, Law, & Lattes
Hosted by Attorney Nadia Gilkes, Life, Law, & Lattes is a safe space where we chat about family law topics, caregiving concerns, and elder law issues. Gentle guidance is given, offering families a blueprint to navigate the legal waters of their most pressing (and often emotional) matters. The information presented here is for educational purposes. It is always best to see an attorney in your city or state to receive advice tailored to your needs and jurisdiction. This podcast does not establish an attorney-client privilege. {Would I really be a lawyer if I didn’t put the legal stuff in there?} I appreciate every listen and every form of support. Please like, share, and subscribe on whichever platform you listen to podcasts. You can also follow eLegal Cafe, LLC on FB and IG - I don’t post often but like us on social media anyway and when I do post something, you’ll already be there. I truly hope the conversations and information shared here will help families in their time of need. If there is a question you’d like me to cover on the podcast, or a topic you want to discuss with me privately, please don’t hesitate to email me or put yourself on my calendar. I look forward to hearing from, and helping you.
Episodes

Friday Jul 25, 2025
Courthouse Dress Code: First Impressions Matter
Friday Jul 25, 2025
Friday Jul 25, 2025
In this episode of "Life, Law, and Lattes," host Nadia Gilkes shares insightful tips on the significance of dressing appropriately for court appearances. Emphasizing the importance of first impressions, she suggests dressing as if you are attending a job interview, while offering specific guidelines for both men and women to appear respectful and composed. Nadia warns against informal attire, such as club wear, crop tops, and pajamas, and reminds listeners that a poor outfit choice can impact your credibility and case. Tune in for more practical advice.
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Thursday Jul 24, 2025
Hollywood Divorce Drama: The David Geffen Episode
Thursday Jul 24, 2025
Thursday Jul 24, 2025
In this episode of Life, Law, & Lattes, host Nadia Gilkes delves into the surprising divorce of famed music mogul David Geffen and his husband, Donovan, opening up a Pandora's box of allegations, promises, and legal entanglements. With a striking 50-year age gap and no prenup in place, Donovan claims breach of an implied-in-fact contract, introducing us to the fascinating world of unwritten promises.
Exploring real-life examples and legal intricacies, Nadia discusses the concept of implied contracts, both implied-in-fact and implied-in-law, showing how everyday scenarios bear similarities to this high-profile case. From taxi rides to unexpected lawn services, she breaks down how behavior can imply agreements.
Join the conversation as Nadia examines what constitutes a legally binding promise without a written contract, drawing lessons for all relationships and agreements: clarity and written documentation are key. And, as always, stay tuned for updates on this unfolding celebrity legal saga.

Monday Jul 21, 2025
Mastering Peace of Mind: A Power of Attorney Overview
Monday Jul 21, 2025
Monday Jul 21, 2025
Welcome back to Life, Law, and Lattes with Nadia Gilkes, where we give an overview of one of the most powerful legal tools you can have on hand: the power of attorney. In this episode, Nadia emphasizes the importance of being prepared with essential documents for unexpected crises. Drawing insights from her book, Woke Up Dead, and an impactful community event, Nadia shares real-life experiences where 56 seniors gained essential legal protection.
Join us as we demystify the power of attorney, a document not just for the elderly or wealthy, but for anyone seeking peace of mind. Learn about the different types of powers of attorney, including general, durable, medical, and limited, and find out who should have one. Whether you're a caregiver, a business owner, or planning surgery or travel, this episode is your guide to staying in control.
Discover common mistakes to avoid when creating your power of attorney, such as leaving blanks, using vague language, and improper signing. Nadia's practical tips and advice are designed to protect you and your loved ones, ensuring your voice is heard even when you can't speak for yourself.
Listen in and learn how a power of attorney can empower your future, offering security and clarity in life’s uncertain moments. Don't wait for a crisis; prepare now and share this vital information with those you trust.

Thursday Jul 17, 2025
Caught on Kiss Cam: When Public Romance Goes Wrong
Thursday Jul 17, 2025
Thursday Jul 17, 2025
Welcome to another episode of Life, Law, & Lattes with Nadia Gilkes! Today, we dive deep into the viral Coldplay concert kiss cam incident that left an alleged cheating couple scrambling for cover. We explore the legal ramifications of infidelity caught on camera and how it might impact divorce proceedings.
Navigating the complexities of fault versus no-fault divorce, Nadia breaks down seven critical behaviors that can sway the division of assets, spousal support, and custody during a divorce. With real-life examples and insightful legal advice, you’ll discover how bad behavior, from infidelity to fraud, can have serious consequences in court.
Tune in for a captivating discussion that blends everyday drama with essential legal insights, and learn why staying off-camera at a concert might just save your marriage!

Thursday Jul 17, 2025
Don't Miss Your Court Date: A Crucial Reminder
Thursday Jul 17, 2025
Thursday Jul 17, 2025
In this episode of Life, Law, and Lattes, host Nadia Gilkes emphasizes the critical importance of attending your court date. Missing it can have serious consequences, including case dismissal, default judgment, bench warrants, or fines.
Nadia advises listeners to double-check their court paperwork, confirm the date, time, and location, and even suggests doing a dry run to ensure punctuality on the big day. For unexpected emergencies, it's crucial to inform your attorney or the court promptly, rather than ignoring the summons.
Treat your court date with the seriousness of a life milestone, such as a graduation or wedding. Show up ready and early to avoid losing your case by default.

Monday Jul 14, 2025
Family Betrayal: When Loved Ones Cross Financial Boundaries
Monday Jul 14, 2025
Monday Jul 14, 2025
In this episode of Life, Law, and Lattes, host Nadia Gilkes delves into the complex and often painful issue of family betrayal involving financial and identity theft. Inspired by the latest reality TV show Next Gen NYC, Nadia explores real-life scenarios where loved ones mismanage or outright steal financial resources. Through the lens of celebrity kids’ experiences, she highlights the emotional and legal ramifications of such betrayals.
Nadia offers practical advice on how to protect yourself from identity theft and financial manipulation by family members. She outlines actionable steps, from freezing credit reports to documenting evidence and filing reports with the Federal Trade Commission and police. For those hesitant to confront family members legally, she discusses alternative strategies like mediated repayment plans with clear contractual agreements.
The episode serves as a comprehensive guide for those facing similar challenges and emphasizes the importance of advocating for oneself. Listeners are encouraged to prioritize their financial well-being without succumbing to emotional pressures. Tune in to explore these timely topics and empower yourself against potential family financial pitfalls.

Monday Jul 07, 2025
Relaunching Life, Law, and Lattes: A Fresh Start
Monday Jul 07, 2025
Monday Jul 07, 2025
Welcome to the relaunch of "Life, Law, and Lattes" with your host, Nadia Gilkes. Join Nadia as she reintroduces her podcast with renewed enthusiasm after a busy year serving in the Toastmasters community and juggling various passions. In this episode, Nadia shares her journey as a family law attorney and a multi-hyphenate enthusiast, discussing topics ranging from divorces and custody to her love for quilting, true crime, and world travel.
Get an insight into Nadia's world as she explores the intersection of life and law, peppered with her affection for lattes. Expect engaging discussions on family law topics, her aspirations for global travel, and potential live recordings. Follow her journey on social media, and stay tuned for more exciting episodes ahead. Welcome to the newly revived "Life, Law, and Lattes"!




